Another quote from a book to think about. ​"Healing isn't about getting back to who you were before. That person is gone. It's about figuring out who you're going to be now." Interesting concept of healing,that when you do get hurt emotionally or even physically, that process of healing changes you, you aren't the same after. That applies to relationships also I guess. Anyway. If I am thinking correctly this quote is from the book He Who Fights With Monsters by Shirtaloon