ewtirewythr 🌟
2026-06-17 01:28 🇬🇧
I hope you're good, just sharing some friendly advice...
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get used to trying more things.
as an adult it becomes clear that almost everyone only gets anywhere w a healthy amount of self-motivation.
join clubs, go to events, & if none interest you, start your own. Promote it, but be prepared for people you don't like to come along.
Whatever happens it will improve your social skills.
Even if nobody comes to your event, you were going to be spending that time on that thing anyway, so keep doing it.
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skate parks & music venues are good, so are sports, theatre & youth music groups.
i once hosted a jam night that only 2 ppl came to, a drunk guy & his v autistic gf. Neither played an instrument, but we did a sorta live karaoke; they requested songs, i played whatever i could figure out & they... sang (?!??) it was a decent time in the end.
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keep trying. find new excuses to chat to people, and keep the vibes up. Simple humour is more universal than anything else.
you won't be stuck forever :]
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get used to trying more things.
as an adult it becomes clear that almost everyone only gets anywhere w a healthy amount of self-motivation.
join clubs, go to events, & if none interest you, start your own. Promote it, but be prepared for people you don't like to come along.
Whatever happens it will improve your social skills.
Even if nobody comes to your event, you were going to be spending that time on that thing anyway, so keep doing it.
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skate parks & music venues are good, so are sports, theatre & youth music groups.
i once hosted a jam night that only 2 ppl came to, a drunk guy & his v autistic gf. Neither played an instrument, but we did a sorta live karaoke; they requested songs, i played whatever i could figure out & they... sang (?!??) it was a decent time in the end.
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keep trying. find new excuses to chat to people, and keep the vibes up. Simple humour is more universal than anything else.
you won't be stuck forever :]