Thinking about my partner. I am. So lucky to have him. They're sick in the same way I am (or at least, we have disorders from the same cluster that would have made communication so much harder if it didn't ultimately help each other with understanding triggers and such), she's my first queer partner (being genderqueer whilst I'm a trans man), which is so refreshing to know that they won't try to detransition me over time. We have a few fandoms in common, but we have a LOT of mutual general interests.. I think, obviously, the most important thing is that she actually respects me and sees me as my own person. I've struggled with only being seen as/valuing myself as much as my achievements, so him telling me that he acknowledges everything I've done academically and is proud of me, they also don't see me AS my accomplishments as I've been told to believe.. It feels nice having a partner I love with my whole heart whom I feel the same for.