I don't think you get it either. Cis people are not the group responsible for the oppression. The group that is is purely defined by the collection of people that passively/actively oppress trans people. Maybe i am looking at it too mathematically, in which case sorry :3

I used to often judge people by labels i assigned to them. I regret it now, and i feel better when i can see people as individuals. A few years ago i would have called any christian a fucking retard, but now i can see the nuance.

I am cis (maybe, for now i am), but i am not transphobic. Just to be clear.