I feel that so hard, it's very hard for me to put down an actual bio for them, even when I do have it all figured out. sometime I wish I could send them everything I have about my ocs through telepathy or something.

also in the same boat as well, it's especially difficult when you have not one, but three different ocs based off of nsfw media that's considered problematic by the fandom. at that point you kind of have to hope and pray that for one, you don't get called a freak or something worse because of it, and two, they can understand what you're even talking about because of how niche the media in question is in the first place. it's "elite ball knowledge" as some would put it, but it weighs the scales evenly on wanting said media to be more well known, and also not because then there's a slim chance it could vanish randomly one day and people would celebrate it being gone.

I've had a lot to think about this, I'm sorry for throwing a wall at you lolol