Yknow, the two (online) relationships/situationships I’ve been in that were sexual in nature, I got icked out because said partner became fully obsessed with every feminine part of me, and nothing else, as if that’s all I was.

And the relationships (friendships, really) I’ve had other than that were just not sexual at all, or in a single case, ended in a one-night-stand followed by full ghosting.

So the evidence is pointing towards me being unable to have my cake and eat it too. Which is frustrating.