transphobes favorite argument is "trans people only consolidate and feed into the gender social norms by transitioning and changing their looks" , but they always fail to realize that there are different trans people . some want to pass , some dont care about it . one tgirl wants to wear make up and dresses , for another going by she / her is enough . its never this specific and categorized as they think it is . i mean when youre a simple - minded cishet person with a typical brain , you cant think without fitting anything into *one specific box* , probably . youre either this or that . no gray areas .
now when i think about it i dont even get whats the big deal even if you *do* wanna belong into a gender role category .
no hate to allies though . i am an ally . hate to queerphobes only .