That's a good position to have.

I feel like neither "can say the right things but never do things right", nor "can't communicate but does the right things" are ideal on their own. I feel like a balance between the two are necessary.

But if I had to pick one, the reason I pick saying the right thing is because I've grown up to be quite independent in looking for my own solutions, I don't expect, or hope, anyone else will find a solution for me, so as long as someone can make me believe that I have their support and affection, as long as they won't leave me, no matter the result, I'm usually okay with going about solving the problem myself. I just need that reassurance, and words will do that for me.