I don't know, I've never stopped to think about it deeply. I've met some trans people in my life (some are now close friends) and I'm like: "Oh, okay cool. I'll make sure I don't misgender you so we can be chill." And I've continued on with my life.

One thing I must say is, I as an individual have preferences when it comes to intimacy (as everybody has) and those have to be respected as much as I respect the other person's. Yeah, lets say I don't like surprises...

At the end of the day feeling good with oneself is rewarding not just for the individual but society itself :p