May I propose a meditation?

Grab the questions of love (see link after message) and imagine sitting with a person you find hard to love. A person you dont really like.

Go trough (some of) the questions with this person, and try your best to imagine what this person would answer. Dont exaggerate the things you dont like about this person, but try to really imagine this person answering with intent. (You're not gonna fall in love, but it may help you hold a base position of love towards this person, even if its not a good person per se)



https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/36-questions-to-fall-in-love