The greatest atonement you can make with you hands is to do better !

Honour your victim(s) by bearing the emotional weight of your flanges, and transform their hurtful actions into ones that work to heal others
(〃￣︶￣)人(￣︶￣〃)

tldr; you can chop off your hand, but it's def more productive to just do something kinder with them moving forward lol