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drpepper 🌟 2026-05-13 19:47 🇳🇱

i wish less people cared about others' sexuality , gender , pronouns , nationality , weight , height ... i hate it when were discussing someone with others for their weird behavious and they say "not to mention that theyre trans / theyre fat / theyre black " like that makes any difference at all . even if i dislike someone , i only do this because of their bad actions they did towards me or others . why would you hate someone because of one simple aspect they most likely cannot control ?

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epsilon 🌟 2026-05-13 20:00 🇨🇦

I hope you always keep thinking this way. It can be rare to find people who genuinely only judge others by their actions and not because of their features which are, for the most part, completely out of their control.

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rodent 🌟 2026-05-13 20:15 🇺🇸

I feel the same exact way. Its always jarring to me when people start to bring up those kinds of things in a conversation, because its not something I ever think about, I often forget others have that mindset

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drpepper 🌟 2026-05-13 20:17 🇳🇱

true . i have my own circle of friends who usually dont judge people for this , and it always gives me a reality check when i am reminded that people actually are hateful to this .

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rodent 🌟 2026-05-13 20:33 🇺🇸

Same here, and its kind of scary in a way. I lose track of how hateful people are, and of what groups they mainly attack so I dont know what parts of myself I would need to hide to stay safe :<

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goth 🌟 2026-05-13 20:27 🇺🇸

i have been endlessly perplexed that people actually care about how someone looks and/or identifies. ive lost a few connections after calling this out in conversations. i no longer have the patience to entertain people who judge others based on appearances and not on actions

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drpepper 🌟 2026-05-13 20:31 🇸🇪

oh same . i had a best friend who was actively on some queerphobic beliefs . they didnt even hesitate judge people for identifying as something that *i* identify as , too , right in front of me . this felt so weird . once i dropped them i heard that they began intentionally targeting trans men and texting them horrible things about their bodies . so so weird . cant believe i was friends with them.

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johnny_thimbleton_85 🌟 2026-05-13 19:54 🇺🇸

The ever-pervasive human instinct of tribalism

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