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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 16:58 🇷🇺

i may have to go to a prom in a suit. what do i do char? i'd feel like shit if i dressed masc for the literal last time i see my class, but i can't even attempt to pass. this feels like a doomed if you do, doomed if you dont kind of deal.
i do want to go, but i've been feeling miserable lately and the prom takes place after the finals. i'll feel even shittier by then.

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artificial.stupidity 🌟 2026-05-16 17:04 🇸🇪

hear me out , a pretty pink suit .

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ouppy 🌟 2026-05-16 17:02 🇺🇸

Wear a dress who gaf

Or wear a jumpsuit

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:09 🇷🇺

i wish. not keen on sleeping in the street once the word gets around to my parrents though.

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:15 🇷🇺

sorry, that came off mean. thanks for support

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drprostate 🌟 2026-05-16 17:18 🇺🇸

- A suit with a ruffles on the dress shirt, or ruffled cuffs

- Something that’s tailored inwards at the ribs, so it flairs out more dramatically

- Pants that have bell bottoms

That way you're still wearing a suit, but it has the same gender norm flexibility as Prince or David Bowie wearing a suit ( ・∇・) that way you can satiate your parents without going completely against what you truly want !

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:27 🇷🇺

oh thats some decent advice, thank you <3

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drprostate 🌟 2026-05-16 17:31 🇺🇸

My pleasure!

My friend did a purple suit + white shirt combo like that for a wedding and it looks BEAUTIFUL!

You got this, I’m cheering for you at the other side of the planet (о´∀`о)

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:40 🇷🇺

i've just learned that at least one of my girl friends is gonna wear a suit too. it kinda makes me feel better :>
hope your cheering won't go in vain, thank you so much <3

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lastgirlonearth 🌟 2026-05-16 17:16 🇪🇸

hey, i'm so sorry, this is such a tough thing to go through :( i guess you have your reasons not to go with the more feminine approach.

is there maybe something you could add to the suit to make you feel better? or how you style your hair, etc? maybe (light) makeup?

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:35 🇷🇺

oh, you're right, i ought to learn to style my hair properly anyway. never tried makeup, but a little would be nice. totally should sneak in a pride flag somewhere too. (ppl here have no idea abt flags).
thank you <3

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lastgirlonearth 🌟 2026-05-16 17:44 🇪🇸

best of lucks girl!! if you need any ideas for hairstyles just let me know. braids are great at any hair length (there are different types) and there are lots of tutorials online. and flags sound like a great idea!!!<3

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michenchin 🌟 2026-05-16 17:07 🇪🇸

If you're not required to go in a suit go however you want.
If you're required to... Don't go. OR BETTER: Go anyways however you want, are they going to kick you out of your own prom?

The least you can do is try.

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.frog 🌟 2026-05-16 17:13 🇷🇺

it's the only nice thing i own.. i don't think the disphoria hoodie would make me feel better. thanks for the support tho <3

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